By setting your filter settings you can filter your messages, winks and gifts so you can focus on the members that match what you’re looking for.
You can also specify to only receive messages from members with a profile picture. You won't be notified of any messages, winks or gifts sent by members outside of your choices, nor will you see those messages on the site by default.
However, you can still see your filtered messages, winks and gifts if you choose to by selecting, 'Show All Messages' in your inbox.
If you don't mind about a particular setting, just leave that field blank.
To use the filter system please go to 'Account' and 'Filtering' and change your settings.
I hope this has been helpful, let me know if you have any further questions.